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Here is Your Gay Problem - Solved

I don't want to be gay?

Well, unfortunately you don't get much of a choice in the matter.  Being gay is not a choice.  The majority of scientific studies show that being gay is genetic, much like genetics determine your race, sex, hair and eye color, etc.  I am interested in knowing why you don't want to be gay?  Is there something your going to miss out on?  Let me know why you don't want to be gay.

I'm gay and want to get out of the closet, but dn't know how, and I want to ask a guy out but don't know if he's gay.

First of all congratulations for wanting to get out of the closet.  There is no hope or joy in living a closeted life, even in this area.  Your far better off being yourself than being someone your not.  The first thing you need to do is just stop!  Stop pretending your straight, stop pretending you like girls, stop putting on a show and start living your life.  The rest will begin to fall into place.  Come out to a friend and eventually you will feel comfortable enough to tell your family.  So you already have your eye on a guy, but don't know if he is also gay?  Well, how about coming out to him and see what happens?

I am a girl and I like only girls.  Girls attract me very much in place of boys.  Please help me I want to get rid of this problem.

Honey, the only problem you need to get rid of is thinking that there is a problem with being gay.  If your attracted to girls then your a lesbian and nothing is going to change that.  Accept it and move on with your life; otherwise, you are going to be very miserable.

It's not a problem it is pure 'gay frustration'.  I have never tried with another man.  I want to get the hell out of the closet NOW!  Help me.  Talk to me.  Besides wanting. I want to be sure of whomever is out there that it is safe..HIV or other problemas.

The only person who can make you step out of the closet is you.  You can have sex whether your in the closet or out of the closet.  Everyone is nervous their first time if they say they aren't their lying.  You need to communicate your feelings to the person your with for that first time.  Make a wise choice for your first sexual partner.  Use safer sex practices to reduce the risk of HIV or other STDs.  If you decide to date someone, get an HIV test and make sure your both healthy.

When i'm having sex with my fiance, and I take it, it doesn't go according to plan cause I end up losing control of my bowles.  How do I stop this?

This can be an embarassing situation but should be easily resolved.  Before anal penetration, be sure that your rectum is clean and empty.  Just using the restroom before is often not enough.  There are a number of products that will help empty and clean your rectum so that you can enjoy some anal fun (If you want a specific recommendation, email again).  If your both up for it, try having her rim you before she penetrates you.  If you feel any discomfort during penetration, make sure that she has used enough lube, that your relaxed and you might even try bearing down SLIGHTLY like your having a bowel movement (this will relax the rectum).  You might also try inserting the dildo while your alone in the shower to ge more comfortable with it.